Monday 23 July 2012

FOR WOMEN WHO HUSTLE!





I don't know what comes to your mind when you see the post title, but whatever it is, feel free to interpret as u wish......... Women are wonderful, beautiful creatures. Oh! I can't imagine the world without women  not just because I'm a woman but in real sense, take some time to think about what women go through in our male dominated society.Anyone who still believes women are "inactive and weak", must be a frequent customer at "African shrine"(if you know what I mean!)

I look around me and I see women hustling everyday trying to make a living. Is it the street sweeper banging that lifeless broom on the unpaved roads, the cleaner at the office wiping off the bread crumbs from the desk,the roadside food seller(iya Basira) shuttling between washing the dishes and serving her hungry customers gbanga soup!, the recharge card seller bustling through the streets with colorful cards a million and one other people are also selling, hoping she'll do be the one, the hawker in your hood screaming "breadi agege"  the bank worker(marketing department) hastening to meet her target, the lawyer, the doctor, the queen of the night and of course the Runs girl. These are some of the ways the woman of today hustles. Kudos to the women who hustle!

Now to my focal point, "The Runs Girl".  Runs girl is a Nigerian slogan, often used to describe a  girl that dates older men who can offer her money or gifts in return for companionship or sexual favours. Other terms used to describe runs girls are "aristo babe", "hustler", "gbogbo bix girls", "ashanna", " shallams", "opeke", "highway girls" etc. There are Runs girls everywhere in the world, the only difference is their standing, there are those who date only filthy rich men, while some would date just anyone that would provide their basic needs. As a friend of mine would say "there are runs girls and there are RUNS GIRLS".

However, it is no news that the activity of a runs babe is highly frowned upon in our society. Why? Is it because most of the men these girls date are married men which according to the bible is a sin(fornication/adultery)?. Is it because often times, they end up breaking homes, convincing the men to make them their wives( naturally or diabolically) or is it because it is morally wrong, and nemesis will catch up with them when they eventually get married? Are those some of the reasons why it is unacceptable?

I'm sure you all know girls who fall into this category and most times you wonder why a young, vibrant girl would resolve  to dating older married men, perhaps you feel there are young promising single men she ought to be dating and even if she was a gold digger, there are readymade young men, fresh off the oven ready to spend either daddy's money or money they have hustled for over the years on her. But I ask you, have you bothered to ask her why she has made this her own form of hustle. Could there be reasons to justify her actions?

Some girls have opted to have  "sugar daddies" because for them, there is really no one out there to provide for them financially,yes, if you didn't  know, some people are completely broke. Perhaps she's an orphan or even the bread winner of her family leaving her with no choice than to "use what she has to get what she wants". Some times, these girls have to look for a way to make ends meet for papa, mama, brother, sister and so on. I met a young beautiful lady a few years ago and I was shocked to find out that she paid the rent in the house her family lived, she was also responsible for her siblings tuition fees, but she was just a student, sad but true. How did she do that? Abracadabra! She used her well rounded curves to entice weak old men, and in return they gave her cash, owo, ego, kudi!

However, one thing that baffles some people is why girls from comfortable, well to do backgrounds still engage in this activity? Is it just mere greed?or the pressure to blend with the trend? The need to be able to afford those "extras" daddy is not going to pay for? e.g the latest mobile phone(blackberry Porsche) or Funmi hair(human hair extension), probably a Range Rover Evoque? Could there be reasons to justify their actions?

Whatever the case may be, there are women who have resorted to doing this on a daily basis, some have lost their lives in the process, some have been made wives in the process, while some have been saved in the process. A dear friend of mine once said " At the end of the day, when you have money, who cares about how you made the money?" What are your thoughts on women who hustle this way? Please drop a line.................

44 comments:

  1. Intrestg topic! I think most times its greed dat leads girl into "runs" wen dey want to live above dia means....u r on 10k upkeep from ur folks yet u want to carry classic chanel...cos some girl in ur class or office has it. Wch oda way wil such a person get d mny if not 2 hop in sm1s bed....I met 3girls wen I was in law school dat came from POOR backgrounds....1 of wch had mnthky money of 2k. Yes 2k! But she served God with all her heart,she was decent to d core! I knw ds cos we stayd 2geda 4 a year. She washd clothes 4 ppl 4 cash and d rest. U don't hav 2 spread ur legs. Der r a bilion tins u can do 2 put fud  ur table...as 4 d rich kids doin aristo....I have no comment. God is watchg u in 3d!

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  2. I think that those who resort to being 'aristo babes' are most of the time driven by greed. We all hustle our way through life but others want to go through the fast lane to get to where they want to be and can do anything to get there, while others decide to work sweat and blood to get to where they want to be.

    No one said it was going to be easy, but the reward and feeling you get from knowing that you have come so far from nothing to something, through your own sweat and blood is far greater than the money you get from the 'old rich men', who sometimes might make you do horrendous things to earn that money(heard horrible stories).

    No matter what girls, no condition is permanent. If you can't wait to be Blessed by God for your hardwork, your sweat and blood then, I don't know. Just because you don't have now, don't mean you will not have for the rest of your life.

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    1. Ure so on point..well said!

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  3. Sex has become a HUGE industry in Nigeria! Nobody does "Osho free" as they call it, anymore. Most ladies are concerned with what they can get for sleeping with a guy, not who their partner is or how they can change or reform his life. I think Nigeria, sadly has become morally bankrupt and although most of our people are hypocrites and pretend to frown at such behaviour, most people secretly envy or encourage such behaviour- even certain parents!!
    Finally, i think "aristo" is borne out of extreme greed and both mental and physical laziness of the ladies involved. It is morally unacceptable thing to do, as it desecrates the institution of marriage, but on the upside (if there is any) nobody is defrauding any body, the "sugar daddy" and "sugar baby", both know what they are getting into, i.e he is married and wants a plaything and she wants to be ur plaything, which u spend a lot of cash on and knows her place! Bless.xxx

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  4. Whatever I do with my body in order to exist and be happy is nobody's business.The society does not help matters, in that if u do not flow with d trend people tend to look down on you.And if I decide to get an easy way around it,I don't think anybody should judge.Afterall wat is the difference between a runs girl and a pen rubber or a guy who dates different girls

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  5. Well said! The way it is our society has become so materialistic and everyone wants to carry the new Louis Vuitton bag or have the latest Louboutin shoes! its like you don't have a lot of money, you are frowned on or its simply not normal. Its ridiculous. May GOD help all of us!

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  6. As far as I'm concerned people have different priorities in Life.. The so called Runz babes are just simply greedy, materialistic and Stupid..
    People shouldn't live beyond their means, all in the name of LV, Louboutin shoes, they do ridiculous things,aren't they afraid of HIV, sexually transmitted disease and the likes..Aristo girls don't know they are selling their glory out..I totally frown at it..There's really no justification to being a RUNS babe..Living the fast lane aint worth it,there are risks involved..
    The best thing is to cut your coat according to your size(hope I got the phrase right)lol and don't let Peer Pressure consume your life, because you are poor today doesn't mean you will be poor forever, just be content with what you have, Pray to God to uplift your current situation to a better one...There's nothing God can't do..Some Runs babe get away with it with no harm while some aint so lucky.Trust me nobody is perfect, Tempetations are out there but just look at the bright side and be grateful for what you have..

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  7. All of u criticisng runs babes r daft! Wat do runs babes do dat is diffrnt frm wat unruns babes do? D only differnce is dat we sleep wif older men but r smart enuff 2 get somthn in return... All u oda dumb lowlives who sleep with diffent small small boys, who dnt give u nthin in return but pain! Who is wiser nw? Pls answer truthfully. And 4 ur informatn, I'm a runs babes,and I'm living my life 2 d fullest, I dnt want to snatch my lover frm his ugly wife, but atleast he takes good care of me, jst got me a Place in lekki 1, and a range, and I'll b spendn my hols in the bahamas, den will storm yankers frm dere! While all u dullin babes will b dyin, trekin in d 9jerian hot sun!

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  8. Ati eni ti on ba aristo sun, ati eni ti on ba boyfriend sun, na d same sin we dey all commit... Do not judge, mind ya business n watch ova ur own p**sy

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  9. See your Life.. Shame on you..

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  10. All u ashannas pretending to be saints,God is watchn u on 3D! Weda ur nackn young boi or old man, bottom line is dat u've nacked more dan one man, hence ur still a whore!!!!b

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  11. I think its as a result of a low sense of self worth. Some ladies have just resolved that no one can truly love them, so they settle for just anything.

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  12. Interestn comments so far on dis blog! First of all,I'm a guy o b4 u guys lash me! But 2 be honest, most of d successful women today are whores or were whores, shud I call names? Kim kardashian, number 1 successful whore, opened yansh 2 d whole world n is makn millions of dollars! Ita Giwa(mama bakasi) we all knw her story!, nike oshinowo(ko si yato), dieziani(iyawo jonah), shud I continue?......

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  13. Well because this so called successful people are/were whores, you advise to join them abi.. Can you advise your sister or daughter to sleep around all in the name of success..Ahh I don't pray to have a brother or father like you..What is wrong is wrong.. There's always a price to pay if not now but later..I rest my case..

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    1. A beg madam bunny, I didn't encorage it, just stating the obvious, shikena! Egba mi o!

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  14. Dear Bunny! Trust me, my life is an example of Lavida loca with peace of mind. Put ur pussy into good use instead of allowing 1 small boi xpand it and reduce ur rep...

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  15. Values!!!!!!!!! It depends on what you stand for,may God help us all.

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  16. Wow! Jst wow! Where are the people with morals n sanity out there? Seems like prostitutes have taken over this blog?

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  17. Mehn some people are EMPTY!!! Madam gbogbobixgirls I can assure you that all you are getting from dt man are crumbs and that's all you deserve crumbs. You call the dudes wife ugly but he's married to her isn't he?.
    Majority of these so called runs babes are just greedy. They don't believe in working hard anymore. And yes fornication is fornication no matter who you are doing it with and how you are doing it. But girls should quit destroying other peoples homes all because of their selfish interest.

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  18. Rotflmao @ Jay.. Ma bad, I fear oo. Sorry about that..

    So Anon 11.07 so u advice I put my p...y into good use by sleeping around and living life on the Fab lane.. No thanks I'm not interested, there are consequences by dear..If not happen but later..

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  19. WOW!!! this is a very interesting post Ms. B.

    I really don't know where to start!!! I do agree with some of the post to some extent!!! If you are NOT a virgin, you can't REALLY judge...however this post is not about judging; it’s about expressing your feelings on this topic so here are MY feelings....

    In everything we do, we have to have integrity and dignity...sleeping with a married/committed guy for his money or anything else is wrong and doesn't bring dignity or integrity to your name...As a run girl, you might feel like you are gaining something you want by sleeping with a married/committed guy but the bigger picture is what are you losing??? Yes Fornicating is wrong period however; I do feel like being in a committed relationship while being sexual active is very different than sleeping around with different men or sleeping with a man because of his possession. I believe we as women have to be careful with the standards we put out there… people only treat you, the way you want to be treated; so be careful with the standards you set.
    I am a hardworking female who can travel whenever I want with the money I earned by working and it makes me proud of myself. I don't have to call a man several times or have certain(scheduled) times that I can call him because of his wife...We have to respect people relationships and please remember "WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND"

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  20. Anon 12.15 well said...Those who have ears should listen.. There's juju and what have you..Just pray you don't end up meeting the wrong Aristo that will scar you for Life.. May God help us all.

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  21. Gbogbobixgirls, u r so pathetic! Ur boasting about enjying anoda woman's man? I' m a married woman n am so irritated at ur message! May the rain from this raining season destroy ur lekki house, may armed robbers steal ur car and finally may the plane ur taking to Barbados crash(i hope it's a private jet)

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  22. Lwkmd...I love this blog..

    Aristo babes don't you guys wanna have a man to call your own..

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  23. Infact just as we speak I'm watching a yoruba movie about Aristo babes, one of d Aristo men secretly took blood sample of this babe and guess what the girl is slowly loosing her mind, d Aristo used her blood sample for Jazz..A word is enough for the wise..

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  24. Abeggy Most bitches re cheat..@ least its either they ve cheated on dia Boy friend or sleep around as Ashanaa..omoo make dem cast stone n see which one of d bitches aint guitly of d above topic..make we leave story jare..Next base Bisodunwrites more. Interesting topic

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  25. nice one bisodun, leave them make dem no hear, at least they always watch all this movies. a word is enough for the wise. more post boo.

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  26. Every1 is allowed 2 live deir lives d way dey want. Married woman cursin gbogbobixgal, ur wastn ur time deres no need 4 dat afta all we r all sinners, one way or anoda.

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  27. Women r jst shady twisted creatures, did I forget 2 mention, money hungry too weda runs babe or not! Dey strt 2 shake once dey see rich man n will give him everytn, but poor man like me dey no send me.I had dis gal I loved die wen I was in uni, in fact I did shady deals jst to pls er, ofcos by d time she met a richer guy, she dumped me, even tho I had borrowed money from my friends n egbons to buy her a ring! Today, where is she? 3rd wife of alhaji.....miserable too, women dnt be greedy, love a man n grow with him, especially one with potential!oju kokoro o da!

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  28. Pardon my shells.
    It is sad but I feel you. Sometimes, when I am around people who just abuse ladies who fall into this group I feel bad for them. Some mothers even do stuff like the ones you mentioned and even worse things. I sometime imagine myself in their shoes and feel their pains. The fact is that most of these ladies might do it for the wrong reasons, but seriously the women married to those men re to be questioned too. If their wives are not giving it to them well or their wives are thinking otherwise. They would prefer to get it cheaper or pay more for something less. Sometimes, we women re to be blamed for our husband looking outside. If you re a married woman and u don't know how to respect and love your man the right way. He would prefer to go out and getting it. I know some re just ashewo, but the way u would give him all the attention ,he will be coming back home on time. Some women have even decided tht giving birth is just wot most of their husbands need(tht is absolute rubbish). He wants your love, the other day a male friend defined love has sex. I was like tht is just wrong definition. I was like the man doesn't know what love is all about. I was like is wife or girl friend isn't doing something right. We women who are married or dating a man tht is never satisfied need to questioned too. If we treat them with love and respect them the right way, we will not have any rival or any lady trying to steal our man frm u. Sorry, 1ce again 4 the shells.

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  29. Lmaooooo! I'm avin a laff rite ere sippin on a chilled glass of fine wine, my life is gud! I cnt shout! Angry wife cursing me, its actually first class, delta airways, I hope ur family members r inflight n go down wif me! Roflmao! Atleast I knw I lived a fab life b4 I died.

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  30. Bisodun why u just focus on runs babes na, there are runs boys these days to o! chidi Mokeme, Van Vicker, Wiz kid, weitin b that mad guy name again o! Eh en Jim iyke, them plenty well well, even all these big men(Hausa men) them b homosexuals, them get runs boys them dey knack for yanch! Big money dey d business o! Runs babes sef no make money rish them. Gbogbobixgirl my sista, I throw wey salute! Just take am softly so fly! Man must whack na!

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  31. Its amazing how people have no sense of self value or any form of morals. Justifying this kind of behavior just baffles me. God help us all. It all boils down to greed at the end of the day. All these material stuff will never fill the empty void within nor will one leave this world with it, which by far longer time than the number of yrs on earth, just saying.

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  32. Nothing,in my opinion justifies "runs".It is plain greed that makes girls esp the well to do ones dabble into it.You should be contented with whatever you have.Dropouts make it in life,so u don't have to do runs to make it in life.

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  33. Firstly I don't appreciate people who judge others, u can't tell what u ll do sometimes unless u av once been in that shoe, and believe me some shoes are so difficult to be in and its as difficult as a size 40 trying to fit into a size 10. We have morals and we have religion which both frowns at this topic but sometimes life gets so difficult for some people and dey dnt av anoda way nt because dey haven't tried to make it the hard way but every moral road they thread leads them back to this immoral route. Site for example dt girl who is d bread winner of her family nd also av to pay rent cos papa is either dead nd mama is blind and she wants her little ones educacted nd wants food on the table also, she has tried getting series of jobs but because God has blessed her with curves nd a pretty face every manager she sees wants to get into her skirt nd most female managers re lesbians nd wants to do the same. She threaded the right path by seeking a job but she has stayed too long to see her family suffer nd all dis ppl ll sleep with her for giving her a job, she tried selling recharge cards,pure water,tailoring,hairdstylist which we ve oda million ppl doing nd won't find a way out. She ended up doing what she had to do, she's nt driving big cars nd nt leaving in lekki1 bt she needs to fend for her family. On the other hand some engage in it cos dey av dated young nd single guys who has cost dem nuttn but pain nd dey den say "its better to shed tears in a range dan on a bicycle" some do it cos of peer pressure nd odas cos of greed.
    Dear aristo girls I understand ur plight but trust me it still doesn't make moral or right and I know u know that but my prayer to u all is that may God ease ur burden nd lead u all to the right path.

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  34. I think its greed darl, no matter how bad it is, people in worse situations find humble ways to survive, but u knw they wana be bigz gals (jenifa voice)

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  35. Let's call a Spade a Spade, it's wrong to fuck for money, either younger or older men, it's very wrong... Most of these gals go tru a lot and die in silence, is it the the pretty babe that bleached her skin to attract men and now spending her income trying to fight skin cancer or the rich babe next door dying of AIDS?...... Some walk about with pampers due to damage cuzed by anal sex trying to satisfy Atiku..lol.... Abi the one with her stinking p....sy cuzed by alhaji's jazz.... it's very sad... I truly can't blame all of these gals but In no way should we encourage them... If u can't advice ur sisters or daughters to go into prostitution then don't support it here....#gbam...chikena

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  36. Lmao! Comments = Hilarious

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  37. Am not judging u gals but is morally wrong and very dangerous.

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